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delphipsmith ([personal profile] delphipsmith) wrote2014-07-03 11:27 am
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Sad days at Chez Psmith

It has been a very difficult few days here at Chez Psmith. Mr Psmith's brother G was unexpectedly taken to hospital on Monday morning; things went very bad very quickly, and he died Tuesday afternoon. We are all still a bit numb; it is hard to even know how to think about such a lightning bolt out of nowhere. G was only forty, and leaves my sister-in-law with three little children, our niece and two nephews. I don't know how one explains such things to a child who just wants their daddy to come home. My heart aches for them, and for all of us...

[identity profile] kellychambliss.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 04:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, my dear, I'm so sorry for you and for your BIL and his family. Young death is a devastating thing. My uncle also died at 40, with four children 13 and under. It's sad and overwhelming. My sympathies.

[identity profile] diabolica.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 04:22 pm (UTC)(link)
My condolences for your loss, darling. Wishing you and your family strength in the days to come.

[identity profile] mimimanderly.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 04:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, I'm so sorry! It is always a shock when someone dies so young, so suddenly. My heart goes out to those three little children!

[identity profile] iulia_linnea.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 05:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry for your loss. *hugs*

[identity profile] tophoenix.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 05:11 pm (UTC)(link)
My condolences for your loss, this is so sad.

[identity profile] anemonen.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 05:12 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs* I'm so sorry for your loss.

[identity profile] mundungus42.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 05:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh darling, I am so, so sorry. *holds you tightly* It takes time to react to such the sudden, shocking, untimely passing of someone who was a big part of your lives. Here's wishing you and yours the time and space to grieve however you need to. Ach, his poor family. This is so incredibly sad. *more hugs*

[identity profile] cassie-black12.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 05:18 pm (UTC)(link)
So sorry to hear that - I can't imagine how awful it must be for his wife and children. You're all in my thoughts

[identity profile] teddyradiator.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 05:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I am so very, very sorry to hear of this sudden and tragic loss. My thoughts are with you and your dear family, and with your sister in law and her children.

{{{Hugs}}}

[identity profile] a-boleyn.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 06:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry to hear about your brother in law's passing. It's even worse when young children are left behind. My condolences to them.
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[personal profile] arcanetrivia 2014-07-03 06:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh dear, I am sorry!

[identity profile] perverse-idyll.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 07:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, I'm so sorry, Delphi. What a terrible and heartbreaking shock. Forty is so damn young, and the suddenness of it can just knock the wind out of you. I grieve for the children and your sister-in-law, who must be beside themselves.

Take care of yourselves. I hope Mr Psmith is bearing up okay. *hugs*

[identity profile] toblass.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 07:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

[identity profile] shiv5468.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 08:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh I am very sorry to hear this

[identity profile] aalia7.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 08:48 pm (UTC)(link)
My deepest sympathies to your and your family.

[identity profile] dreamy-dragon73.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 09:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry for your loss.

[identity profile] irishredlass.livejournal.com 2014-07-03 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
{{hugs}} my heart goes out to you all. From the childs's perspective you cannot explain it. I know...

[identity profile] pitry.livejournal.com 2014-07-04 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
Oh no. I am so so sorry for your loss. This is so terrible.

*hugs*
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[personal profile] madeleone 2014-07-04 03:45 am (UTC)(link)
Oh God! That's awful. My condolences to you and hubby and all involved. It must be so hard to explain something like this, especially to young children, because really there is no explanation. How very, very sad. *Huge Hugs* to all.

[identity profile] ennyousai.livejournal.com 2014-07-04 02:24 pm (UTC)(link)
My condolences to you and Mr. PSmith. I hope everyone manages to find a measure of peace.

[identity profile] anna-bird.livejournal.com 2014-07-04 06:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, no! I'm so sorry for you and Mr Psmith's loss, how horrible. Wish I could give you a hug, or a hotdish and company.

Okay, here's the best the internet has to offer on the hotdish front, anyway:

[identity profile] magnetic-pole.livejournal.com 2014-07-04 07:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so very sorry to hear that. My condolences. M.

[identity profile] pyttan.livejournal.com 2014-07-05 08:56 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry! My condolances.

[identity profile] noeon.livejournal.com 2014-07-07 05:18 am (UTC)(link)
*more hugs here*

Sweetie, I'm so sorry. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.